Limitation 1: each bond represents two electrons, there can only be so many bonds based on the number of valence electrons present.
Limitation 2: each atom has only a certain number of valence orbitals which it can use while making bonds. Hydrogen only has a 1s orbital available so it's total electron count is limited to 2 ( a single bond). The second period elements (with only 2s + 2p available) are limited to total electron counts of 8.
Limitation 3: Geometric constraints arise because the atomic orbitals on atoms have certain directional character (with the exception of "s" orbitals which are spherical). This allows them to bond effectively in only certain ways. This limitation will be expounded upon later, but suffice it to say that two carbon atoms bonded in the gas phase (C2) cannot exhibit a bond order of 4 because all three 2p orbitals cannot localize electron density between the nuclei simultaneously.
Key Points:
*Atoms in molecules want to make bonds (within reason), not necessarily attain an octet of electrons.
*The number of available orbitals and electrons gives
rise to an "octet" rule for 2nd period elements which maximize their bonding
interactions when the attain a total electron count of 8.
We have already seen and are quite comfortable with the fact that hydrogen cannot handle anything but a total electron count of 2. This should open your eyes to the reality underlying Lewis Structures! This is the first example of a violation to the so-called octet rule.
What about a substance like BH3? The
best Lewis structure is depicted below.
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Consider BF3 as well.
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For the first 4 examples (XeF4,
SF6, PCl5,
[SeBr6]2-)
the Lewis structures are easily drawn since terminal halogens and fluorine
always contain only single bonds and three lone pairs in the best structure.
Let's consider the periodate ion, IO4-.
Several Lewis structures are drawn below.
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Structures II and III reduce the formal charge on the central I atom to more reasonable levels, III being realistic energetically since the iodine atom only bears a QF of +1.
The best structure shown is IV, which posseses a greater number of bonds, as well as the minimum formal charges. The placement of a negative formal charge on oxygen is entirely realistic. Note that the central iodine atom exhibits a total electron count of 14 in structure IV (the best structure) but has the supposedly magical 8 in structure I (the worst).
Below is shown one final structure (V) for IO4-
in which an additional bond between oxygen and iodine is drawn. This
representation is entirely acceptible but is higher in energy when compared
to IV because the negative charge is borne by the less electronegative
central iodine atom instead of the more electronegative oxygen atom.
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